avoidance, best version, commitment, excuses, experiences, fears, Uncategorized

12 EXCUSES you tell yourself to cope with FAILURE

Do you open your eyes each morning wishing you saw something different? Guess what, everything you see is because of you. You do not see what you want because you have excuses preventing you from getting to where you want to go. You continue to use the same excuse over and over to cope with your… Continue reading 12 EXCUSES you tell yourself to cope with FAILURE

ask for help, best version, experiences, faith, fears, God, perspective

EXPOSED: There is no such thing as God

I have found a few topics that can get a crowd going and God by far makes that cut. People either get so turned off by the G-word mentioned or people wet the inside of their panties talking about Him. There is no middle of the ground usually. You either believe or you don't and… Continue reading EXPOSED: There is no such thing as God

addiction, alcoholism, drugs and alcohol, experiences, fears, insecurities, judgement, secrets

EXPOSED (Special Edition): Hi, my name is Becca and I’m an alcoholic and addict

Welp, cat is out of the bag now I'd say 🙂 Up until now I have yet to air my laundry regarding my addiction to drugs and alcohol. It usually just never fits nicely into a conversation. I prefer to not broadcast it as there is a stigma that comes with addiction in society. We… Continue reading EXPOSED (Special Edition): Hi, my name is Becca and I’m an alcoholic and addict

avoidance, fears, insecurities, judgement

EXPOSED: It doesn’t matter how many like you, it matters the one who doesn’t

I can count on all my toes and fingers, plus yours, how many times I have said 'I don't care what they think.' It is a common phrase that just slips out of my mouth from time to time. However, it is much more complicated then simply saying 'I don't care' and then not caring.… Continue reading EXPOSED: It doesn’t matter how many like you, it matters the one who doesn’t

avoidance, best version, dreams, fears, insecurities, Power of NOW, time

The Power of NOW

I was notorious for starting everything I wanted to change in my life on Monday's. Monday was the first day of the week in my mind, therefore, it was always the day of change. If I was planning on eating healthy and exercising, Monday was the day I would start. If I wanted to start… Continue reading The Power of NOW

fears, judgement, memories, secrets, sexual assault, trauma, vulernable

EXPOSED: Your scars should be accessorized

Welcome to the first ‘Exposed’ blog post (happening every Tuesday)! Remember my first ever post, What the FUCK am I doing?. The name is self explanatory. I had no clue where I was going with this whole blog thing, how it was going to look or even what was going to come of it. I… Continue reading EXPOSED: Your scars should be accessorized

best version, dreams, experiences, fears, time, vulernable

Calling all Beyonce’s!!

Have you ever wondered what 5 years down the road will look like? Have you ever set goals that far in advance? If you haven't you're wasting precious time. There is a quote out there that says, 'you have as many hours in the day as Beyonce.' I don't care for her (Bee hive stay away,… Continue reading Calling all Beyonce’s!!

fears, insecurities, judgement, perspective, vulernable

I think the world is out to fuck me!?

The world just may be trying to fuck me! I did just get a new haircut, lost 5 baby weight lbs recently and not to mention got hit on by the Dunkin Donuts cashier this morning. So it may be very likely that the world is trying to hookup with this MILF over here. Personally… Continue reading I think the world is out to fuck me!?

fears, vulernable

The word VULNERABLE is equivalent to the word CUNT

I bet I got your attention and even more so, made you miss a breath or two. I get it, the word cunt makes the hair on your neck stand up. It just pierces through you and then lingers for awhile. The word vulnerable does the same exact thing to me. Three or four years… Continue reading The word VULNERABLE is equivalent to the word CUNT